Indications of Codependent

A Sense of Rejection
August 6, 2020

The codependent often feels unwanted, unlovable and a sense of rejection. An extension of creating the perception of everything being perfect leads a codependent to negative feelings about how others feel about them. Their low self-esteem and fear of…

Honest with Themselves
August 4, 2020

Codependents struggle with being honest with themselves and cover up others’ bad behavior. Often codependents will rationalize and justify their and their loved-ones behavior so that they can maintain control and manipulate those around them. This se…

Control of Others
August 2, 2020

Codependents are incredibly manipulative in their control of others. Under the guise of helping others, codependents will sometimes use guilt and shame and any other available methods of manipulation to get what they want. As the codependent makes a …

Feel Victimized
July 31, 2020

Codependents often feel victimized. Though they are often resentful and angry, codependents have little self-knowledge or self-awareness that they have caused their own unhappiness. It’s done through their need to control others and constantly get po…

Everything Personally
July 29, 2020

Codependents have a tendency to take everything personally. A codependent sees everything as a reflection of them. Any slight or comment that implies less than perfection is taken very personally. Their lack of boundaries causes them to always want t…

Feeling unloved – Tries to Please Others
July 27, 2020

Feeling unloved, the codependent tries to please others so that they will be liked or loved. There is a purpose to the codependent’s helping others. They expect to be appreciated, even loved. If that doesn’t occur, they feel taken advantage of and de…

Feel Underappreciated in your Relationships
July 25, 2020

Do you feel underappreciated in your relationships? Besides becoming angry when advice is not followed, the codependent also gets angry over the amount of effort they’ve put in to helping the other person and the fact that no level of appreciation se…

Advice to be Followed
July 23, 2020

Do you expect your advice to be followed and followed to a tee?  Codependent people often struggle with boundaries. They expect their advice to be followed completely, and get angry when it’s not followed. They value their own opinion and expect that…

Indications of Codependent – Advice
July 21, 2020

Do you offer advice even when you haven’t been asked? A codependent person views his advice as vital and continues to provide it, whether it’s been asked for or not. It becomes natural for the codependent to “butt in” to every problem of the other in…

Indications of Codependent
July 19, 2020

Below you will find some additional indications that you might be codependent. You may want to self-assess your significant relationships for your own knowledge. Do you feel responsible for other people’s problem? Codependent people feel the need to …